Popular radio presenter at Radio Maisha & corporate host Phelix Odiwuor better known as Jalang’o gave his opinion on the unbecoming behavior of men butchering women on love grounds.
This was elicited by the recent brutal murder of Ivy Wangechi, a 25-yr old student at the Eldoret based Moi University.
The 6th year student was attacked by a man who confessed to have invested money and emotions on her but she did not give what he wanted in return.
According to the Eldoret DCI, the suspect sent Ivy some money she’d requested for her birthday only to start ignoring his calls soon after she received the cash.
This led Naftali Njahi Kinuthia, 28, to travel all the way from Thika to Eldoret to confirm why the lady wasn’t picking his calls after receiving ‘his hard-earned’ money.
He tried calling the student but she was not picking calls still, the suspect alleged that at one time Ivy switched off her phone, making him exasperated.
The boy was forced to buy an axe and a kitchen knife in Eldoret, tools he used to commit the horrendous act that has left many puzzled.
Well, according to Jalang’o, ladies must stop taking favors from men they feel nothing for as no man gives any lady money for free.
The gram post which is now deleted irked feminists who felt Jalang’o was not in order.
The radio presenter called on young ladies and adviced them not to promise what they can’t deliver.
Here’s Jalang’os long post.
“I THINK IT’S TIME WE BECAME HONEST WITH EACH OTHER….TOO MANY YOUNG BEAUTIFUL GIRLS ARE DYING SOME OF THE MOST SADDEST DEATHS YOU CAN’T WISH FOR SOMEONE’S DAUGHTER! IT IS TIME WE DISCUSSED THIS ISSUE! RULE ONE! NO MAN GIVES ANY WOMAN ANYTHING FOR FREE! YES I SAID IT !
MEN CAN WE TELL THEM THIS! EVEN YOUR DAD TAKES YOU TO SCHOOL SO THAT AT OLD AGE AND WHEN HE CAN’T PROVIDE FOR HIMSELF HE WILL DEPEND ON YOU!
SO MY SISTER BEFORE YOU TAKE ANY MONEY FROM ANY MAN JUST ASK THEM WHAT THEY WANT IN RETURN AND IF YOU CAN’T OFFER WHAT THEY WANT RETURN IT! SIMPLE DO NOT PROMISE WHAT YOU CANT DELIVER!
Jalang’o asked young ladies to avoid telling lies in exchange for a man’s hard earned money, instead, he advised ladies to live the life they can afford to avoid such tragic endings.
PEOPLE WORK SOO HARD FOR THEIR MONEY MY SISTER! DO NOT EXCHANGE LIES FOR A MAN HARD EARNED MONEY! MY SISTER …MY DAUGHTER WHEN YOU DECIDE TO LIVE BEYOND WHAT YOUR PARENTS CAN AFFORD BE READY TO PAY THE PRICE THAT THE OWNER OF YOUR LIFESTYLE WILL ASK!
MEN ARE BORN INVESTORS AND WHEN THEY INVEST IN YOU THEY EXPECT RETURNS! IF YOU CAN’T GIVE THE RETURNS JUST LIVE THE LIFE YOUR PARENTS CAN AFFORD!
AND NOTHING IS AS GOOD AS YOU BEING ABLE TO AFFORD THAT LIFE! DO NOT BE SAD THAT YOUR AGE MATE IS IN DUBAI AND WEARING ALL THE LATEST HAIR AND CLOTHES,
THEY MAY BE SAD FOR WHAT THEY HAD TO DO TO BE IN DUBAI AND SAD THAT THEY DON’T EVEN LOVE THAT PERSON THEY ARE WITH IN DUBAI! BE WARNED MY SISTER…
MY DAUGHTER…MEN ALSO HAVE FEELINGS AND WHEN PROMISED THEY WANT THE PROMISE! DO NOT BE A VICTIM! DO NOT BE DEPRESSED! ONE STEP AT A TIME!
BEFORE YOU TAKE ANYONE ONE MONEY AND GIFTS, BEFORE HE PAYS FOR YOUR SCHOOL FEES AND RENT…BEFORE YOU TAKE THE PLANE TO THAT TRIP..BEFORE YOU DRESS IN THAT LATEST GUCCI DRESS, BEFORE YOU CARRY THAT DAVID JONES BAG ASK HIM WHAT HE WANT.
IF YOU CAN GIVE WHAT HE WANTS GO AHEAD IF YOU CAN’T LIVE THE LIFE YOUR PARENTS CAN AFFORD! SEE YOU ALL THE HARDWORKING WOMEN AT THE TOP!”
This post elicited mixed reactions amongst netizens and celebrities as a number of his followers agreeing with him while other sharply tore into his post they termed reckless.
Singer Akothee commented:
“If I would say, wangesema ninasema vibaya @veshashaillan @rue.baby @fancy_makadia please read this”
Comedian YY said:
“first let me condemn the brutal act that Man did…..secondly,bad people are bad people and we can’t change them….in this case we are only in control of our own situations…so dear Women, don’t take offense when Told to be careful,please BE…If you use a good man they will just let if fly…but not every one is a good person,…there are psychos out here and they can’t be known by just looking….May She rest in peace”
An angry Adelle Onyango commented:
“This is quite ignorant and reckless. So we must adjust to tolerate murderers? Women have been murdered because of saying NO (something they have the right to say at any moment) and you say this?
37 women since January killed – FEMICIDE and you say this. It’s exhausting – constantly being told to keep safe because men have decided to be killers! Every woman will tell you how they have to adjust every day actions just so that they don’t suffer the aggression of men.
There is no difference between your train of thought and those that justify rape because they bought drinks. (They too claim drinks to be an “investment”) Don’t teach us how to avoid getting killed – tell them not to kill us, attack us, rape us”
“Shame on you! Such an ignorant post!!! How dare you justify murder?! Are you saying that women should also hack to death the men they spend money on?
Because women also spend money on men. Are you saying men are animals that have self control? Your post justifies murder. You are part of the problem!!!”
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